What is your relationship status in university period?

If you are a university student, what do you think your relationship status will be at the end of the university life? If you already graduated from university, what was your relationship status for that time frame? I made a theory that assumes there could be 18 types of relationship status during your university life. See if you can find yours among these 18 types. But before going to details let me explain how my theory works.

Suppose the time you are/were a student of university is a blue lined box. And mark yourself as red arrow while you are going /went through that blue lined box. Also put a different color arrow(s) for your partner(s) in that box depending on the relationship status. PUFF!! you get your relationship diagram. And now I think I should tell you the underlying assumptions of my theory.

Assumption 1: You are/were not married while you are/were student of university.
Assumption 2: you dated only one partner at a time.
Assumption 3: you didn’t dated your university teacher.

If you don’t fulfill the requirement of the assumptions, you will not find  your relationship diagram in 18 diagrams given below. And now let me explain the 18 cases for you so that you can find your diagram.

If you face any problem understanding the diagrams, please see the explanation below.

Case 1: You were/are single throughout the university life.

Case 2: You entered with your partner and remained with him/her and you both graduate together.

Case 3: You got admitted in one university and your partner got in another. But you two remained together and finished your university life together.

Case 4: You admitted with your partner but in the middle you guys broke up. And you remained single for rest of the university life.

Case 5: You were single when you got admitted but you got your partner during your university time and graduate with him/her.

Case 6: You and your partner got admitted in different university and in the middle of university life you broke up. Rest of the university life you stay single.

Case 7: You were single when you got admitted. But at the first semester you got your girl friend. you remained with him/her through out the university period but broke up at the time of graduation.

Case 8: You and your partner entered in the university together and broke up at some point. Then you get a new partner and graduate with him/her.

Case 9: You were single at the beginning. then you met someone outside of your university and fall in love. You continue the relation even after your graduation.

Case 10: You get admitted and graduate as single but throughout the university life you EXPLORED and continuously changed your partner.

Case 11: You begin as single but then you changed your partner several times. Before you graduate you finally find THE ONE for you and graduate with him/her.

Case 12: You entered with one partner but due to study pressure or some other reason you couldn’t give time to each other and eventually broke up. Later you got a new partner from outside of the university and continue the relation.

Case 13: You were single for the whole university period except for one or two semester.

Case 14: You and your partner got admitted in different university and broke up in the middle. then you get new partner from your university and graduate.

Case 15: You enter and exit as single but in the middle you had a relation for one or two years.

Case 16: Together you and your partner got admitted in university. At some point of university life you guys get married and when you graduate, you may already have kid(s).

Case 17: You were single at the beginning. Then your parents forced you (or in your own wish) to get married with someone from your university. And you might have kid(s) by the time you graduate.

Case 18: Same as previous one. Your parents forced you (or in your own wish) to get married with someone outside of university. And you might have kid(s) by the time you graduate.

I assume by this time you have found your relationship frame. Now match which case are you from the following 18 possible types of relation format in university time frame.

Contradiction to Self: Part 1

I used to be a introverted person. When I got admitted in Dhaka Residential Model College, in the beginning I had almost no friend. As time went on, i made some friends. Then one day one of my friend (now he is my best friend 😀 ) told me “before we were friends, I used to think you as arrogant. people will misunderstand you until they come close to you.” I smiled and replied “what can I do? I am just like that”.

Soon I found out that I’m becoming more and more introverted. I can’t talk with people more than 2 minutes. I love to be alone. There were time when I didn’t call my friends for days. Even I cut off all sorts of communications for 2/3 weeks. I went on total hibernation. But when I came back from hibernation, I found it very hard to get back in the track. Later I decided to lower my introvert level.

Because of my introversion, I become habituated with brain storming. And suddenly I figured out I’m good with numbers and I like to play with numbers. So I chose Finance as my major in Bachelor degree as it matches my personality.

As I said earlier, I wanted to lower my introversion level. Therefore, I took Marketing as my second major for my undergrad. degree. In marketing courses a student have to do lots of fieldwork and researches. Sometime they need to communicate with corporate world. More importantly a marketing student have to do lots of project works and presentations. I thought it would be a great opportunity for me to lower my introversion level, get to know many people, to learn how to communicate with others and to make new friends. And after almost three and a half-year time, I have become a man of friends.

Being an introvert, I preferred to observe people instead of talking with them. Observing people have become my habit. I use to think I am good at observing and understanding people through observation. And most of the time I were right. But now I think otherwise about observation ability. Why? let me tell you why.

One of my close friend were in a relationship. And recently s/he (don’t want to disclose any information about that friend. sorry about that. ) went through break up. I was with the friend whole time but yet I couldn’t detect anything. I didn’t even understood what s/he is going through. I failed to observe all these thing. I failed to support my friend.

A person is defined by his or her beliefs and philosophy. When the beliefs and philosophy become extinct, there remains nothing to define that person. Right not I’m in that position. All my major personal beliefs and philosophy have either got destroyed or changed. Now I am just a contradiction to myself.

Happy Birthday to Mobashra!!

Happy Birthday to Mobashra!

It was summer 2008 when I first saw you in MKT202 class. Again in fall, I saw you in ECO134 class. We did classes for 8 months and yet we hardly talked.

In spring 2009 i joined NSU YES!. In the orientation program i saw you again. I found you in facebook from club’s group. I added you and started to communicate on regular basis.

It didn’t take much time before we started chatting in messenger. And that is when we became friends. As days went by, our friendship grew stronger. Since then we did many things together. We share so many memories.

You were and are always helpful to me. Till the last day at university, you helped me. You pushed me to where I’m right now. I’m grateful to have you as my friend. Soon you will graduate and start a whole different life. I know you will do just fine. And I wish you good luck.

And for today on you birthday, I wish you a very delightful, enjoyable and memorable birthday. Happy birthday Mobashra! Happy birthday to you, my friend.

Thanks for the party invitation. I will not miss it for my life. See you in few hours. He he he….

Redwan

A sample love letter for HR Managers

Some of my friends have taken HRM as their concentration. And unfortunately most of them are single. As a future HR manager, They should know how to write a love letter as they will be recruiting their boyfriend or girlfriend. Well, I’m not experienced in this sector but still I came forward to  help them. I collected this sample Love letter for my future HR manager friends. Others can use this sample too but at your own risk. Because this sample is specialized for HR Managers.  Hope you will find it useful. 😛

To,
[Name of the person]
[Address]

Sub: Offer of love!

Dearest Mr. /Ms [Name],

I am very happy to inform you that I have fallen in Love with you since the 20th of October (Thursday). With reference to the meeting held between us on the 19th of Oct. at 1500 hrs, I would like to present myself as a prospective lover. Our love affair would be on probation for a period of three months and depending on compatibility, would be made permanent.  Of course, upon completion of probation, there will be continuous on the job training and performance appraisal schemes leading up to promotion from lover to spouse. The expenses incurred for coffee and entertainment would initially be shared equally between us. Later, based on your performance, I might take up a larger share of the expenses. However I am broad-minded enough to be taken care of, on your expense account.

I request you to kindly respond within 30 days of receiving this letter, failing which, this offer would be cancelled without further notice and I shall be considering someone else. I would be happy, if you could forward this letter to your sister, if you do not wish to take up this offer [usable for male managers only].

Wish you all the best!

Thanking you in anticipation,
Yours sincerely,
[Your Name],

[Address],

HR Manager of XYZ company.